If you have to talk to your ex then be formal and do not refer to the breakup. Soon your ex will realize the breakup was a big mistake and will come crawling back at you.

- Were you the one that caused the breakup? If so then you need to apologize for your actions. However this is where you have to be careful because if your over do it you can be in serious trouble of not getting your ex back. Therefore when you are apologizing, be short and to the point. Don't repeat your self or beg as you will come across as being needy and that is a sign of weakness that can push your ex further away.

- Upgrade yourself. Get a new look, dress differently and adorn yourself in a manner so as to impress your ex. Your ex will admire your new look and this will attract them to you all over again. This reverse psychology can do wonders I tell you.

These three tips can help you to get back your ex after a breakup. Use them and watch how your ex will come crawling to you begging you to take them back. For best results use them within a few weeks after the breakup.